Who am I?

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The question keeps you up at night. It’s more than existential dread. You’re searching for the keys to unlock the deepest parts of you. The answers that will make you feel whole.

You don’t know where to begin.

You’re not sure if you’re going to love what you find.

All you know is that you don’t really want to go it alone, but you’re not sure where to turn.

It’s an isolating, confusing feeling.

Find yourself with an identity expert.

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Hi! My name is Dr. Annie Snow. As a queer and kink-affirming ABS certified sexologist, I have personally helped hundreds of folks navigate their identity journeys.

My methods have been widely published and adopted by other therapists so that folks across the globe can move from a space of confusion to confidence.

Common Identity Treks

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Gender

Gain clarity about your gender identity and explore the various ways you can express that gender to yourself and others.

This is more than just choosing pronouns that fit. This is about finding confidence and support, whether you choose to medically or socially transition or not.

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Move from a place of “questioning” to clarity on the sexual identity trek. Through a series of customized exercises and expert assessments, get to know yourself like you never have before.

This isn’t about putting you in a box.This is about giving you the tools and freedom to explore and define the real you.

Sex

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Kink

It’s time to raise that freak flag! If you’ve been keeping your kinks and fetishes under wraps, it’s likely that you feel a sense of shame.

On the kink idenity trek, you learn how to shed thoughts of “what is wrong with me,” and embrace your unique sexual turn ons.

What former clients
are saying

"Annie is really easy to talk to. I was able to open up and share things I haven’t told anyone. It was the breakthrough that I needed to be honest with myself about things I have been stuffing down and ignoring for a long time. The relief I feel now is incredible.”

— Former client on a sexual identity trek.
Shared with permission.

"I was SO discouraged when I contacted Dr. Snow. I was experiencing so much dysmorphia and shame around my identity. Fast forward to a year later, and I'm finally confident in my body and having meaningful, passionate sex! The best part is that for the first time, I really feel like I deserve it.”

— Former client on a gender identity trek.
Shared with permission.

If you’re struggling on your identity journey, you don’t need another Buzzfeed quiz to tell you who you are. And you don’t have to go it alone.

You may need an experienced sex and gender guide who has helped hundreds of folks find and fall in love with their most authentic self.