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Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You've had questions about your gender or sexuality for years, but it never seemed like a good time to explore the possibilities. If you're being honest, you're afraid of what you may find. Afraid of the consequences. Afraid of blowing up your life. But it's getting harder and harder to ignore the sense that you may be missing out on who you're meant to be.

  • You love feeling feminine. Crossdressing is just one way to feel beautiful and satisfied. You don't think you're trans, but you sure do enjoy sissy play. You're just not sure how this all fits into your day-to-day life. It all feels a bit...weird. And isolating. You're worried about what others think. Hell, you judge yourself at times. You'd just like to feel at peace with who you are.

  • What's in a name? You've tried out a plethora of labels and pronouns, but nothing seems to fit. You don't feel totally queer but you don't feel completely straight either. You've tried to find belonging in the LGBTQIA+ community, but even with all the letters, it seems like yours just doesn't exist. It's hard to shake the feeling that there's something wrong with you. And it's lonely as hell.

  • You're doing it! You're coming out. You're taking the plunge. A social or medical transition is on the horizon. It feels right, euphoric even. But it's not without its challenges. How will you navigate dating? Friendships? How will you experience sex in your new body? The anxiety is almost overwhelming your excitement. It's just so much to take on.

If you’re struggling on your identity journey, you don’t need another Buzzfeed quiz to tell you who you are. And you don’t have to go it alone. You may need an experienced sex and gender guide who has helped hundreds of folks find and fall in love with their most authentic self.