Stressed about sex?

Move from a state of panic to pleasure.

It wasn’t always this hard. But now your body isn’t responding the way it used to. Panic has replaced pleasure, and you’re dreading sex in a way that compromises your self-confidence. You keep hoping you can jump start your libido or save your sex-starved relationship, but…

It isn’t working.

If you’re sick of feeling sexually stuck, you’re in the right place: a place where you can exhale. A place where you can get out of your head and into a life of connection and self-confidence.

You’re not ridiculous for needing help and you’re certainty not broken. You’re just trying to navigate an experience without a detailed map or a guide who can help you get to where you need to be. That’s where I come in.

Hi! I’m Dr. Annie Snow

I’ve been an ABS Certified Sexologist and a relationship counselor for over six years. During that time, I’ve helped hundreds of folks find relief from of variety of intimacy-related challenges.

Before becoming a therapist, I was an academic researcher and university professor, teaching mental health students and practitioners how to offer the most effective therapeutic solutions.

I’m passionate about helping clients find a compatible therapist (it’s one of my published areas of expertise!), and I can’t wait to discover if we’re a good fit.

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Signs that sex therapy might be right for you

Many people assume sex therapy is only for severe sexual dysfunction. In reality, folks seek sex therapy for a variety reasons.

You may benefit from sex therapy if:

You feel stressed, anxious, or overwhelmed about sex.
You worry that something is wrong with you sexually.
You experience performance anxiety.
You struggle with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation.
Sex is painful.
You and your partner have different levels of desire.
Childbirth/child rearing has taken a toll on your libido.
You feel disconnected from your sexuality.
You have questions about sex that you’re too embarrassed to ask friends or family.
You find yourself stuck in repetitive thoughts about your sexual experiences or functioning.
You have questions about your gender or sexuality.
You want to improve intimacy and communication in your relationship.

If any of these sound familiar, you’re not alone. The best news? You don’t have to suffer in silence. Relief is within reach.

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Secure virtual counseling sessions from anywhere.

We’ll find the right time and cadence that fits your lifestyle, no matter what state. No matter what time zone.

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Solutions for these common issues:

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Performance Anxiety

Just the thought of having sex sends you into a panic. Whether the culprit is erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, past trauma, or something else, the anxiety is overwhelming. Thankfully, regaining a sense of calm and sexual confidence is possible.

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Mismatched Desire

You’re feeling guilty for constantly turning down sex. Or you’re struggling with feelings of rejection after being rebuffed by your partner. Either way, you’re starting to wonder if there is something wrong with you or your relationship. If you’re ready to find some relief, you’re in the right place.

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Identity Exploration

You have burning questions about your sexual turn ons, your gender identity, your kinks and fetishes, or your place within the LGBTQIA+ community. You’re ready to take that first step with a therapist who is an expert in identity formation.

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What are a few benefits of sex therapy?

Better Relationships

"By the time I reached out, I had pretty much lost all hope. I didn't think my relationship could be saved. I had tried everything and I was exhausted. Annie is a legit miracle worker!!!

I'm finally able to communicate with my partner without things escalating into a fight. I feel closer than ever before. I'm so glad I didn't give up.”

Former client, shared with permission

Increased Self-Confidence

“I was SO discouraged when I contacted Dr. Snow. I was experiencing so much shame and so much frustration with my body.

Fast forward to a year later, and I'm finally walking around confident in my own skin and having great sex! The best part is that for the first time, I really feel like I deserve it.”

Former client, shared with permission

More Sexual Satisfaction

"I was tired of feeling like there was something wrong with me for not wanting to have as much sex as my husband. It turns out it’s not that I didn’t want to have sex. I just didn’t want to have the kind of sex we were having. I had no clue things could be different. Shifting things around, following our sync plan, and discovering what I actually want has been a total game changer."