We’re bringing sexy back.

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • You’ve been told that sex is only for straight, married couples. Gay people go to hell. “Promiscuous” women are damaged goods. You no longer ascribe to these harmful beliefs, but the trauma persists. You can’t shake the shame and embarrassment that follows an orgasm (or lack thereof). You’re wondering if you’ll ever feel “normal.”

  • You used to have no problem getting and maintaining an erection. Now you find yourself getting soft at the most inconvenient moments. You’re starting to avoid or dread intimate moments. The anxiety is only making it worse.

  • Your relationship with your body is complicated at best. It feels impossible to enjoy sex when you don’t feel comfortable in your own skin. You fantasize about feeling desirable, but in reality, you mostly feel self-conscious and “not good enough” in intimate situations. It’s starting to take a toll on your self-esteem.

  • You’ve spent much of your life catering to the sexual preferences of cishet men. You’ve mastered the Cosmo classic “15 Ways To Keep Your Man Satisfied In Bed,” but you have no clue what really turns YOU on. You’re starting to wonder if sex will always feel like a chore.

If you’re struggling with a lack of sexual confidence, you don’t need a pill, another self-help book, or even an aging pop star (sorry, Justin). But you may need an experienced sex therapist who can tailor solutions to your specific situation.